The first weird thing is the number of questions about race. Seriously like 7 of the questions so far could have been rewritten as “Would you be ok dating a racist?” I could have clicked no once and been done with it. Please do not pair me with any racists. Thanks.
The second weird thing is the order in which they ask you questions. Their algorithm for matching you with potential partners is based on a series of questions over a broad expanse of topics. Since they come in no particular order, they can be very jarring. They once asked me if I was a cat person or a dog person. A perfectly adorable question to ask. They followed it up by asking if I was cool with kissing after oral. Not nearly as adorable. But adorableness to sexy-time questions isn’t nearly so jarring as what happened next. First they asked me if it was important to spend time with family during the holidays. They then asked how I felt about getting pegged. o.O Somehow, the juxtaposition of holidays at gran gran’s and anal play completely stopped me from feeling any interest in dating. Maybe I’m just old fashioned.
Can I just use a picture of my friends dog for my OkCupid profile pic? Waffles is much cuter than I am.
9 Black butch lesbians share their stories in The Butch Mystique (2003)
The last one!!
"It hurts me so much when men look at me in a way of hatred. They only hate me because I’m not making myself available to them."
Being a nice person is so fun
Waiter messes something up? You can see the relief on their faces when you don’t scream and swear at them about it
Extra tickets at an arcade/prize place? Watch a little kid’s face light up when you give them a bunch of tickets
There are too many assholes in this world. Be a nice person.